Why is online dating so exhausting

Published: 26.01.2018

I'm a 26 year old female. Going on dates is fun not work. I do online dating and I end up emailing back and forth for about a week to make sure no red flags appear during that time.

And then when you start dating that someone, what about all those other people you still havent met yet or are still in the chatting via match. Give her what she wants to see in your photos.

I'm actually in a relationship that I've been in for like 5 months or something like that. Being in a relationship is great! You choose to go to events where you'll have opportunities to meet people and you choose to put yourself out there. You handpick 10 men or women to write to and take the time to personalize the subject line. But now that I'm all settled in and actually looking for someone, it's impossible. I'm really happy being single, and I feel like I'd have to compromise more of myself to be in a relationship right now than I'm comfortable with.


I am much more relaxed hanging out alone, or with friends than I have ever been on a date, or in the beginning of a relationship. I find it very hard to care about things too and it takes a lot to upset me. Your date obviously wants to get to know you, but even you are tired of hearing your life story. This is called settling.

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I'm not saying being in a relationship is better. Further, given the nature of my job and social life, a lot of my dating attempts end up being "Hey, I'm unexpectedly free tonight, want to get a drink? We manage all aspects of online dating for you and set up your dates. I think life is pretty exhausting whether or not you're with somebody; it's just a different type of exhausting.

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