Dating is too hard

Published: 18.03.2018

The writing of the books was precipitated by the endemic dating woes on the Harvard campus as I observed them as an advisor and, earlier, indulged in them as a student. Her book, Skinny Revisited , focuses on the healing of eating disorders. Smart people can figure stuff out, right?

We've seen this myth play out time and time again by desperate fools trying to get laid. Does the high number of singles prove that this is indeed a fact?

You're not afraid that there's too much effort involved. It is unfair that you have to do all the pursuing, and that you have to take all the emotional risks by making all the "first moves. Smart people can figure stuff out, right? There are a lot more single women there for one! Well, it's not going to get you laid, brother or sister. I wrote the Tao of Dating books specifically for really smart people. You can then make friends with the regulars.

1. Dating isn’t dating anymore.

On the one hand, this makes no sense. Our friends, who have zero desire to get married or move in with someone, are the ones who will find the love of their life first. So wake up, smell the coffee, pay attention, and you may just learn something.

Once you begin flirting with women per day you will quickly see results. Now, luckily, the world's kinda big, so the remaining 5 percent of the gender of your choice is still a plentiful million or so people.

But, few — in my experience — are truly ready….


When it comes to dating, most men are run by myths, misconceptions, and denial of their power as men. That means pretty much everyone you meet will have some sort of baggage. It's their turn now. They want to be single for as long as possible to keep their options open. After all, relationships are a leap of faith.

    1. Rafael_Chester - 22.03.2018 in 19:01

      You are reading Skinny Revisited.

      Viktor_Plague - 28.03.2018 in 14:27

      Working with a therapist to better understand who you are and what you project is certainly a positive in the dating process.

      SaneK_Miacc - 04.04.2018 in 14:55

      They act as if dating women were rocket science or that it was as complex as learning brain surgery.

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